TY - BOOK AU - Kuhl,David TI - What dying people want: practical wisdom for the end of life SN - 1586481193 AV - BF789.D4 K84 2002 U1 - 155.9 21 PY - 2002/// CY - New York PB - Public Affairs KW - Death KW - Psychological aspects KW - Terminally ill KW - Psychology KW - Family relationships KW - Case studies KW - Attitude to Death KW - Terminally Ill KW - psychology KW - Case Reports KW - lcgft N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 305-310) and index; Time and anxiety -- Bad news -- Physical pain -- Being touched, being in touch -- Life review -- Speaking the truth -- Longing to belong -- Self-realization: who am I -- Transcendence N2 - Facing death, and the fear and anxiety that arise from it, is part of the human experience. Though much has been done to address the physical pain suffered by those with terminal illness, Western medicine has been slow to understand and alleviate the psychological and spiritual distress that comes with the knowledge of death. In What Dying People Want, Dr. Kuhl begins to bridge that gap. He does so by addressing end-of-life realities-physical, psychological, and spiritual-through his own experiences as a doctor and through the words and experiences of people who live with the knowledge that they are dying. Dr. Kuhl presents ways of finding new life in the process of dying, of understanding the inner reality of living with terminal illness, and of addressing the fear of pains, as well as pain itself. We can learn lessons in living from those who are dying, and it is possible to find meaning and peace in the face of death ER -